What Hurts.....

• letting go of a person u've just learned to love
• reminiscing the good times u shared together
• shielding ur heart to love somebody
• trying to hide what u really feel
• trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from ur eyes
• loving a person too much (agape)
  
• giving up someone u never thought of giving up
• having the right love at the wrong time (para sa mga taga cavite)
• taking the risk to fall in love again
• hiding ur relationship from someone else
• controlling ur feelings to avoid hurting a friend
• thinking of him every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he never even thinks a single thought of you... (double ouch!!)
• letting go, because everytime you see the person, you only fall deeper (good move!)
• holding back only to find out when it's too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn't let the feelings out
  
• falling inlove with someone you didnt mean to fall inlove with (silly)
• finding the perfect guy...with only one prob....he doesnt love you... (pagpilitan ba)
• helping the one you love "make ligaw" to your friend
• seeing the one you love crying for someone else
• the waiting also hurts like hell
• having to hear "... I've met someone"
• agreeing to his wish to 'just be friends'.
  
• asking his freedom back bcoz 'he'd be happier with her'
  
• asking u to 'forget that everything happened' and be 'normal' friends again.
• hearing that u're treated as a little sis (ouch!)
• sharing his future plans for the girl with you.
  
• u stopped being friends bcoz his gf asked him to.
• being denied in front of people.
  
• telling u lies where he'd been when actually, he was with a 'new friend' or an 'old flame' (whew!)...(triple ouch!!!)
• he told u he'd be leaving u to return to his ex (d one he left 4 u!)
• breaking someone's heart
  
• fighting for that one thing that would make you happy that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you his commitment unless he fix himself...then, you are left hanging for the moment...then he says, time will tell...ang labo lang niya...but you still decided to hope in him and trust him..(labo talaga)
• PRETENDING you're OK when inside you're dying...(hirap nito..really)
• PRETENDING to be strong.... and RECOGNIZING your weakness
  
• lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have... (matulog ka kaya)
• being with someone you can't actually love...
• pretending you don't love a person whom you actually love...
  
• being in love...
  
• letting go even if you really don't want to... having no right to say you are huting because it was your decision
• seeing the person you love hurt because of you... and not being able to help that person...
• having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will never be the same again when he doesnt treat you with the same closeness as before (it really hurts noh)
  
• having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
• admitting that you love someone despite his imperfections
  
• finding out that the more you try to hate him, the more you end up loving him, perhaps even more than before (martyr... true love..or stupidity)
• realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up.
• the thought that this guy, used to really love you and you loved him as well kaso you didn't give enough and he gave up on you na
  
• Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else....."
• making a promise....and realizing that when the time has come for that promise to be delivered....the commitment is no longer there...
  
• the hardest thing about love - believing it exists. After you've been hurt... ...learning to forgive ...learning to trust and love again

But the hardest thing really is learning to love yourself.
We always forget to do this. Always....